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Why are boys like that?

vijaykumar's picture
on November 30, 2007 - 9:26am

I never thought I would eventully get the courage to tell a guy a liked him, a guy a had never even talked to in my life, a guy who had no idea who I was. But I did it and I felt great.. at first. We chatted over msn for a few days and everything was great. We had fun, made jokes, asked a lot of questions, simply talked. He seemed very inteligent and amusing, but also charming. Unfortunetaly, this could'n last forever. Everything was great over the net, but when I walked up to him in school(we go to the same school), HE JUST BLOOM ME OFF saying that he had just gotten out of a long relationship and wasn't ready to start something new at the moment. But we agreed to go out sometime, as friend. A week had passed without him even once saying hy. I was dissapointed but determined not to give up on him because I had really thougth him great. But everything got clear when I finally decided to approach him and try to make small talk to see what was going on. I was convinced he was just confused or maybe chickened out. When I said hy he just looked at me with this cold look. I said something about us maybe going out for coffee this week. He was silent. I felt like he couldn't wait for me to be gone, like I was getting on his nerves. It was horrible. Eventually he said I was to pushy and that he still had some unsolved emotional issues with his ex. I wished for ground to open up bellow me and swallow me. I just smiled nervously,said something like 'I'm not going to bug you any more' and walked away. I was broken. It's still hard because I have to see him in shool everyday and it happend only this week, so it's still too fresh. I don't understand how he cound have been so cold and cruel, when he was so great a few days before? I hate feeling this way. I know I won't feel like this forever but now I doesn't seem to be geeting any easier. :-(

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