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Need advice please

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on February 26, 2008 - 12:14am

Ok Grobies..I need some advice. As most of you know I am going to Ireland next week (What am I saying of course you all know, its all I have talked about..lol) But anyway.. my dilemma..I have 6 friends plus some grobanites that I would love to meet up with while on my trip. I am a get up and go, be ready in 2 minutes kinda girl. I'm resourceful, and not afraid to venture off in places I don't know. (Hell, I've walked around New York City at night and wasn't bothered by it one bit) The thing is I have a friend from school who is also going on this trip, and she is shy, cautious and although this sounds mean.. wishy-washy.. Today I joked about heading out each night with my friends and leaving her in the hotel. Well she got all pissed off and stormed away. The problem is.. I want to go and just be with my friends who I won't get to see again for a very long time. Plus going to Ireland is my life-long dream and I want to seriously make tracks... I want to cover alot of ground and see as much as I could, and I don't want anyone or anything holding me back.. So I told her I may go off with my friends one or two nights and she was like ok.. But as my friends and I are coordinating our meetings it seems like I will be out almost every night. Now of course my friend from college is more than welcome to come along but I have a feeling I might be taken to people's houses and I don't want to give them an unexpected guest..

Is it wrong for me to want to take off and go with my Ireland friends instead of playing buddy to this college friend of mine? I don't want her attached to my hip the entire time. I don't know what to do because she is very sensitive and don't want to upset her.

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